It’s SJW tactics 101 – They’ll take an extremely partisan stance in an attempt to bait you into attacking them (i.e. women good, men bad), and if you lose your cool or don’t phrase your argument right, they’ll frame it in a different context and use that as “proof” you’re a bigot. It’s all about making you look like a bad person and swaying the opinions of normies as part of the larger culture war, and it’s dishonest as hell.
It’s best to ignore them, but if you ever do find yourself in an argument with one, the best route is to expose the flaws in their reasoning by asking the relevant questions. Something like, “Why do you lambast masculine characteristics in men (toxic masculinity), while praising those same characteristics in women?” Getting SJW’s to actually explain themselves is basically anathema to them. You’ll know you’ve won when they’ve either blocked you or have devolved into using insane troll logic that no-one but them can understand.
Most of them are just brainwashed saps who have been tricked into holding positions they haven’t thought about very carefully.