I have read too many times/saw too many vids where women want strong men.
But once weakness is shown, they loss all respect for that man, whom they no longer see as being strong.
Men solve their emotions internally.
Women solve their emotions externally – by sharing every detail with their girlfriends.
As that famous saying:
Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus
We are BOTH different. Do social engineer can change those facts.
Man get married to the woman they love, in the desire they will NOT change.
Woman get married to the man they love, with the desire to change them into the person they WANT them to be, and change themselves at the same time to something so different from the woman they were when they got married, it is like they are two separate beings.
Oh, we have “grown apart” I hear all the time. No, it is mostly the women who have mutated to something else.
Most men by the time they come out of being a teenager, know exactly who they are, what they are, etc.
Most females I know, if I did not know them before, I would not have recognized them. Five, ten, fifteen years later, and they still don’t know who they are, what they are, etc. They are always looking at the newest fad, newest trend, newest influencer. Always trying to imitate someone else, instead of finding out who THEY are instead.
Men understand men. And things are ok.
Men don’t understand women and women don’t understand women. That is human nature.
What is worse, I also hear women understand women, and they hate each other because of it.
I think expectations between the sexes has become unrealistic, and that is part of what some of the issues are.