“body positivity”, just more unhealthy hypocrisy

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  • #305141
    Vknid
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      It should surprise no one who pays any attention that this tenant of the modern left is nothing but hypocrisy.  It’s no wonder young people today are anxious and depressed and even more upset with their bodies than a typical teenager.

      One one hand they are told you are healthy at any size and to accept yourself as you are.  And then on the other hand is this pervasive thought you are not healthy unless you have a 6 pack with 3% body fat.

      Let’s set aside the fact this seems to be very sexist as one of these thoughts is touted for women and the other for men.  But the reality is these ideas are unhealthy for all people and do nothing but keep young people very unhappy.  It’s almost as if it’s designed to do just that.

      It’s not that one of these things is correct and the other is not.  BOTH are incorrect as they are both lies.  You cannot have a huge amount of excess body fat and be healthy.  You can be healthy and not have a 6 pack.

      Normality is a thing and it needs to be brought back into the mainstream. Stigma and shaming can be ugly things but they can also play an important role in being your guardrails in life to keep you “between the ditches”.

       

       

       

       

      #305167
      DarthVengeant
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        There is nothing healthy about making your heart beat harder because you are obese. They say it is not unhealthy, well folks, your heart disagrees. For every 20lbs you ad to your body, your heart has to beat just a little harder. Add a few hundred extra pounds, well, now you wonder why you get cardiac issues. There is a reason why obese people get heart failure. I have an aunt who died from it, because she was over 500lbs. We need healthy positivity.

        #305172

        Most people I know that are that big are that big because of health issues and are/or diabetic through no fault of their own. They also eat healthy. A lot. I only know two people who can get that big if they’re not careful with what they eat. If they see themselves gaining even a tiny bit of weight they head straight to the nearest gym and work out for a couple of hours. They don’t go onto ThickTok and complain about gaining weight.

        I’m fortunate to be one of the few people who no matter what she eats never gains weight😂! I still eat healthy though.

        As for Keanu, he still looks good for his age and I see nothing wrong with what he has 😎. If anyone should be thinking about loosing weight it’s Lizzo. To the best of my knowlage she’s got no health issues (yet!) so she shouldn’t have any excuse to exercise and eat healthy.

        #305176
        Vknid
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          “I’m fortunate to be one of the few people who no matter what she eats never gains weight😂! I still eat healthy though.”

          Well first off, I hate you.  Secondly, again, I hate you.  :P

          But eating right is not just about weight.  Look at the starving folks in any place you can think of.  Are they healthy?  No.  Cleary that is because of lack of nutrition. Ironically, you can be overweight and still lack nutrition if you eat things that just have calories with little of what your body actually needs. You can literally be fat and be starving in a nutritional sense.  In my experience this actually causes you to be more hungry more often because your body is essentially screaming at you to find something of value.  That is why eating balanced is important.  It is also important to feed your body what it is designed to take in.  That comes down to simply eating animals and plants.  If it came from a machine or a factory or food scientists were involved in the production then it’s not what you were meant to eat.  That includes protein bars, shakes, that fake meat crap etc etc etc.

          It’s interesting if you think about it.  The chant of the body positivity movement “you can be healthy at any size” is a complete falsehood.  However the inverse is actually true.  You can be unhealthy at any size.

          #305210
          DarthVengeant
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            @DragonLady : I work in health care. I have observed it for years. Yes, there are people with pre-existing health issues that contribute to weight gain. Thyroid issues for example. But, in the USA the majority are that way because of their crap diet and lack of exercise/movement. They just aren’t healthy. I have watched this for years. Yes, they have diabetes, but how did they GET diabetes? A majority get diabetes from the garbage they ate and didn’t take care of themselves. Yes, many get diabetes from bad genetics. However, diabetes can be managed through diet and taking care of yourself even when you get it. I’ve known people with diabetes who just keep eating shitty because they can just do their daily insulin shot and keep being stupid.

            You say you can eat and not gain weight. Well, I used to be that way too. Until now. I am 49 and have gained 30lbs over the past few years. I don’t like it. I actually used to be too thin and it was an act of divine intervention to gain weight. Things change when you get older though. I ride my bike (I actually don’t own a car), so get exercise, but still have gained weight. Welcome to being 49. I am now making changes and want to lose 25lbs, the right way. And guess how I gained the weight? I haven’t been eating as well the past two years. It’s partly my own fault, but I am fixing it. Diabetes runs in my family, so I don’t want that. The thing is, I don’t know how people can look in the mirror and like what they see if they gain a lot of weight. I certainly don’t, and have had enough. No, I am not FAT, but I don’t like what I see, especially in my midsection. My legs are great from riding my bike at least. lol

            #305219

            On gaining weight, I believe a significant factor is the lack of nutrition in conventional food. People are simultaneously becoming obese while starving; no matter how much they eat, their bodies stay hungry because they need something they’re not getting. (I suspect this is deliberate on the part of the food processing industry.)

            I mostly eat organic food, and while it’s more expensive, I can eat a meal and be satisfied. So, I may pay more per calorie, but I eat fewer total calories.

            I don’t think “organic” is necessarily required to provide good food, but I do think it would take a reconfiguration of the priorities of conventional food producers. They’re not optimizing for people.

            #305257

            My take is pretty simple that people should strive for a healthy diet and body, as it obviously has numerous benefits. But people shouldn’t be judged and bullied for their body, and everyone should have the right to be happy and proud of the body they got because there are sometimes underlying issues like a body condition or medication which makes you swell up a bit.

            Another issue is that for children from poorer families, they can not afford foods or ingredients that are more on the expensive side and rely on cheap fast food or convenience food. Having free food provided in school is in my opinion a way to make sure the kids get at least one healthy and nutritious meal per day, as well as a way to save up some money for healthier options at home.

            #305261
            Vknid
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              @Roccandil

              “On gaining weight, I believe a significant factor is the lack of nutrition in conventional food. ”

              100% truth.  Also due to the massive amounts of unnatural carbs (and lack of natural fat and protein)  in most processed foods you end with insulin resistance which is weight gain spiraling out of control where you possibly end up diabetic. Evidence of this is the massive amounts of Ozempic that get prescribed for wait loss as it combats insulin resistance.

              “I mostly eat organic food, and while it’s more expensive, I can eat a meal and be satisfied. So, I may pay more per calorie, but I eat fewer total calories.”

              When you say organic do you mean natural?  IE plants and animals?  Organic as a label in the USA is governed by the USDA. There are a lot of questions and some evidence there that even things labelled Certified Organic are not as great as you think as the rules have what appear to be intentional loopholes.  That’s not even to talk about things labelled organic but not certified organic.  I think there are different rules there as well.

              Anytime there is a boon of cash to be made for something and the government is involved you can be assured corruption will abound.  Labelling something organic is free money as you can charge significantly more for it and maybe it’s organic and maybe it’s not.

              I think ultimately everything should be organic.  We should not treat the Earth like a factory. Sure you can have large farms but not “factory farms”.  And let them spring up all over.  Farming as we knew it 75-100+ years ago was not bad for the environment. There is nothing wrong with growing plants and animals the natural way as I see it.  From my understanding the farmers in the Netherlands (ironically) which they are trying to shut down have great processes for this.


              @SuperSoynic_Speed

              “But people shouldn’t be judged and bullied for their body, and everyone should have the right to be happy and proud of the body they got because there are sometimes underlying issues like a body condition or medication which makes you swell up a bit.”

              Bullied?  No, of course not but there is something to be said for general stigma.

              Judged?  That’s not something you can control in others and it’s not something you should try to control either.

              Everyone should have the right to be happy?  Absolutely as the “pursuit of happiness” is in the Declaration of Independence. Should everyone be proud of their body? No, not necessarily however, again, this is not something anyone but that person controls.

              “Another issue is that for children from poorer families, they can not afford foods or ingredients that are more on the expensive side and rely on cheap fast food or convenience food. Having free food provided in school is in my opinion a way to make sure the kids get at least one healthy and nutritious meal per day, as well as a way to save up some money for healthier options at home.”

              It is a misnomer that you have to eat garbage if you are low income.  Does it make it harder to eat natural? Yes, but it does not exclude it.  And I am not sure when your last trip to McDonald’s was but fast food is no longer cheap.  I would say you can make a healthy meal for more people with the same cash.  The hitch there is you have to know how to cook (used to be a common skill) and you need to make the time to do so.

              I agree with school lunch programs as I have heard first hand how sometimes that is the only meal a child will get in a day. But referring to that as healthy is a lie.  It’s not, its cheap garbage food.

              Furthermore I find that often times, like pretty much anytime the government gets involved, EBT or other welfare programs encourage bad behavior.  For example, allowing EBT funds to purchase fast food.  It’s not that there should not be safety nets in life but they should not be a lifestyle.  It should be a hand-up not a handout. If such programs also taught folks how to eat properly, eat well on a budget or how to do basic cooking that would actually help a person with lifelong skills instead of throwing someone elses money at them as you pass by waving asking them to vote for you.

              I am all for helping folks.  But actually help them.  Just tossing cash at people hoping for the best DOES NOT WORK.  It’s never has and it never will.  It is simply a political platitude to gather votes.

              This was true 200+ years ago and it is still true today.  Sure, the times have changed but human nature is the same.

              “I am for doing good to the poor, but…I think the best way of doing good to the poor, is not making them easy in poverty, but leading or driving them out of it. I observed…that the more public provisions were made for the poor, the less they provided for themselves, and of course became poorer. And, on the contrary, the less was done for them, the more they did for themselves, and became richer.”

              ― Benjamin Franklin

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              #305298
              DarthVengeant
              Premium

                You all know that most countries don’t really have this problem. Obesity is primarily a USA issue, and it’s because of the garbage allowed here. The promotion of unhealthy diet and living, it’s actually advertised. The expense of eating better. The fact that people drive more here so aren’t walking or riding bikes. There are many contributors.

                I’ll give an example. In Japan the obesity rate is below 4%, in USA it is ABOVE 40% now. They eat better, the normal Japanese diet is way more nutritional/healthier (fish is a historically better contributor for a good diet). They walk and are as a whole more active in their daily lives. If you watch video’s in Japan, you see a lot of bikes everywhere (it’s like that in most Asian countries for that matter). People riding bikes is exercise. The kids in school actually help with Lunch and their lunches are vastly superior nutrition wise, it’s mostly all fresh made. The kids walk and ride bikes too. They are also cleaner as a people and culture. This helps with health.

                The healthcare in this country is also at fault. Doctors throw pills at people, not get to the actual issues. They give you some cardiac and blood pressure pills instead of telling you to lose weight, get more exercise, and change your diet.

                This can all change, we can follow countries like Japan as an example. But, sadly, Americans are too stuck in their way, and it’s nothing to be proud of. As someone who works in healthcare, I find it disgusting frankly. I get upset at work sometimes because of what I see.

                 

                #305333
                Vknid
                Moderator

                  “You all know that most countries don’t really have this problem.”

                  That’s actually entirely untrue.  Many other countries have the same issue but possibly for different reasons.  In fact if you go by percentage of population that is obese the US is not even top 10.  But we must consider all information in the proper context.  If you list only modern or developed nations or even nations of size then yes the US is at the top of the list but they are not alone.  For example the US is at 36%.  But you have Canada, Australia and the UK at at nearly 30%.  And most likely for the same reasons as the US being the fact that “garbage food” is plentiful and bad habits are encouraged in a number of ways.

                  Now if we drill into this further you can find evidence that these percentages are not exact and are only general references.  But if you use them for a general reference you can slice it up in all sorts of ways that show overall that about 40 years ago underweight was a worse problem world wide than obesity.  That dramatically shifted for much of the world since, especially the developed world.  And obviously I think that is due to the introduction of garbage food, processed food and the demonizing of things that are actually good for you.  The interesting part is that the obesity rate in the first world (while still going up) has slowed due to the recent emphasis on health and nutrition and what I assume is a renaissance for eating common sense natural foods.

                  The other thing is all this is based on BMI which is a relatively just a general reference for health as it is just a simple calculation of ratio of weight and height (BMI = kg/m2). It takes nothing else at all into account that I am aware of.  That’s not to say any part of the thought that too many folks are overweight as clearly that is the case.

                  I think at the end of the day what we see across the world is indeed a rise in obesity.  I think that study I read said that obesity worldwide is now a larger problem than being underweight for essentially the first time in known history.  I believe almost of all of that (especially in the west) is due to people being so far separated from their actual food source that they have in general fallen victim to decades of marketing and lack of direct food knowledge and now we often eat man made crap instead of the things we spent evolving off of for hundreds of thousands of years.

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