Is being a “girl boss” a negative thing? Only if you prioritize the welfare of children above the self.
Can women be leaders? Sure. Is this what they are typically best at? No. Most actual leaders I know of (not politicians, they are not leaders) are men because this is one of those things men are usually best at. Does this mean the role of a woman is lower or less important? No. In fact if you consider that children are always a priority then a woman’s rule as a nurturing mother is the most relevant and critical role in human history.
Sure, you can be a girl boss. You can be an aggressive woman and climb the corporate ladder. But this is the same as a man working hard to be a nurturing mother. It flies in the face of what most men and women are naturally good. Sure, be a girl boss. Bring down thunder and lightening in a board room. But if there becomes a moment where you find yourself unfulfilled with that, then by about 40 it’s too late. This leaves you in a position that you regret what you previously lived for and spend the rest of your days pining for what you easily could have had but you chose otherwise.
You can be a girl boss. But doing so possibly deprives a child of a caring mother. And you may think well the man can nurture. Maybe. But women are about 1000X better at that.
Women are built to nurture children. This is the most important job in the world and why feminists consider this enslavement only points to the disingenuousness of that movement.
Men are built for aggression and physical self sacrifice.
You can rationalize these God given talents in any direction you wish and conjure why women can be men and vice versa.
But this is not true. Any pursuit in that direction is simply a selfish endeavor more or less.
Men and women need to understand they need each other, that alone they are halves of a whole. Thinking this way typically ends in contentment and being surrounded by children and grand children as you pass to judgement. This is also the critical mistake feminists made early on. They did not factor in that what hurts men, hurts women, hurts men and so on.
You can listen to the current world, but you end up alone with box wine and cats or beer and your right hand, miserable and cheering on the approach of death.
These used to be simple and common sense choices. Now we need research studies funded by companies who wish to sell us things to tell us what makes us happy.
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